I really need to study this. It’s become a constant throughout my life, so much so, that I know if I mention it to bystanders, they’ll think it’s ME! It’s NOT!
I wish the best for all those around me, I encourage young people to follow their dreams, I hope that I never emasculate a man, and I try and be the “sister” to all women that either match or pull from my strengths! The women that are LIKE me, could easily all live on one island together and be happy!!!
These weaker women- that just can’t seem to get a grip on the every-day people skills – You KNOW them- you know Her! I’m sure she’s done it to you Too! Or? You may BE Her.
Here’s what’s important to know: if you ARE her, stop- look- and listen.
Strong women are meant to support you, nurture you, help you through your rough spots, and not play games with your psyche. We all love men, rightfully so, but when the chips are down, a strong woman being there for us, is worth more than all the money in the world! Knowing that she is taking the time to help us, …fix us… make us good as new, if not better than she is, is the ultimate prize! It makes us feel more than WORTH something!
There are lots of both types of women out there. Weak women can turn into bullies, because it’s the only strength they can feed off of. Picking on someone else, to hide their own fears. Can we please, gracefully show these women that life is short, bullying is long and drawn out, hurtful and shallow? It takes so much energy to bully someone, so much unnecessary effort to HATE or Scheme against another woman. If you’re her, do you really feel like the winner in the end? Secretly, don’t you wish you could stop? It’s Exhausting to be angry all the time!
We are Grown Ups and should be setting the right examples for our daughters, neices, female friends. Where is there time for bullying and childishness in this time of our lives?
Look around you- if you’ll take a moment to recognize the Superior women that are Here for us, and grab on to their hands, let them bring you to the other side! You can melt, and be reshaped into that perfect circle of gold friendship, and trust. Maybe you ARE that woman, but you’ve gotten a bit lazy, and forgot what it meant to reach out, and bring the weaker women on board.
Listen to each other! Read each other’s eyes, hand movements, body language. We’re born with the same parts, we’re just molded into different mind sets. Let’s regroup as ONE. No more bullies, no more games, no more feeling insecure and alone. Reach out to each other and never be afraid that we’ll turn you away. If you have the strength to Reach, we have the determination and heart to Hold. It’s all about Trust.
THAT is a Sugar Mom.