Here are 5 things for you to think about, and consider letting me help you. We can be “pen pals!” They’re meant to let you give yourself permission, to move forward.
Just think about them…
1.Who we used to be.
Remember the woman who “hooked” your mate? She was full of self-confidence and sass, because she knew what she wanted. There are a few people that would surely benefit if she reappeared in your life. You, your spouse/mate and family. There’s nothing more appealing than a woman who can hold the reigns and direct with a wink!
From the questions I ask you, and the answers you divulge,… we’ll bring her back- you have my word.
2. Who we want to be.
After remembering who we were, and picking and choosing what the good parts were, which is not an easy task – it’s like taking a good strong look in the mirror… but now we can incorporate other things into who you are, like a role model, a new hobby that you may like to take to the next level, beyond “hobby.” Sometimes it’s too confusing to view yourself with scrutiny and justice. I’m here to bridge that gap! I’m very good at seeing what works- what has potential- and the, “ya gotta’ be kiddin’ me” stage! I’m very serious about this. We all find it easier to view and fix someone else’s life, isn’t that true? Here’s where I can offer the help in a gentle way to get you rollin’ to the “New You!”
3. Sex- should we be afraid of it or should we embrace it, and for that matter, Which Parts??
We fall into routines and it’s not unusual for people that have been together for what feels like forever to get stuck in sexual ruts. Jobs, kids, after school activities, etc…do you remember the magic that made you rush home to be together? The way you learned each other from every angle of sexual delight? We can find that again, it’s like riding a bike! It doesn’t disappear, it’s just waiting for someone to bring it back to your newly heightened standards. We both know I’m not exactly normal– but I’m enough to offer the ultimate “getting you back to where you belong” position of sexual comfort, IF you want to.
4. Your partner- are they REALLY the right person for you?
It may be a huge challenge for you to admit this is the wrong partner even though logic prevails. They may have the money and the know-how to make your life more secure, but take a minute and think: is this the happiness you’ve been looking for? Is this love or lust or are you settling for what’s right.
Maybe they’re not even bringing their end to the table; not supporting you the way you thought they would, financially or emotionally. What’s keeping you home if this is the case? Could it be what most people fear? CHANGE? In no matter what type of circumstance, a change is more than worthwhile! It keeps things fresh and it allows you to grow. Let’s talk about what kind of steps you need to take, no matter what the status of your current relationship is, to make changes that keep YOU interested and interesting!
5. Your dreams.
If there’s only one thing in this whole world I can help you with, it would be to make sure you never lose sight of the fact that you are not only entitled to your dreams, but you deserve to live at least one of them- at a time! If they’re attainable (by my standards) and we know how “outside the box” I am, then we will pick and choose the right dream ones for you!
